The problem is that people are entering into a relationship with someone because they think they deserve it or that they are ready for a relationship, but truth is, you’re not. You’re not ready for a relationship if you don’t know specifically what you want out of it. But first, you have to know yourself, your needs, your wants dreams and desires. If your dreams and desires don’t recommend relationship status then listen to yourself and accomplish what you need to be successful for YOURSELF! then once everything is going good for you, let’s say if you started a business and it’s developing continue to strive until your business is OUT THERE and HOT, and remember it’s for YOU! once that is done go and pursue your freedom and enjoy your dreams and desires out in the world. Don’t worry!, once you feel satisfied with your accomplishments you’ll feel a sense of peace and you might be ready around that time to give and receive love from your partner, and you’ll be able to focus on love. Don’t think, ACT! because life is not forever, but don’t live so fast to where you’ll feel discomfort with yourself and those you love. You’ll total regret it if you do! but what i am really trying to say is that you should live for you first! Do what makes you fulfilled then go into creating a life to share with a partner.